Wednesday, February 2, 2011

A REAL FA'ALAVELAVE

The extended family convened at our verandah
to discuss monetary matters and cultural reciprocity
for a funeral service.

There was some laughter, some “hellos” and “how are yous”?
But the non-verbal communication was louder -
too loud it was deafening.

“However much one can afford”, everyone agreed
yet the smiles and laughter were the ONLY things in compliment
of the family consensus

Their eyes looked depressed
and the wheels in many heads turned vigorously
to brainstorm potential targets for easy money

Such is the FAASAMOA.
In the haste of providing the most culturally appropriate service,
YOU REALLY FORGET TO MOURN

Now, ain’t that something!!!

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